I was preparing to teach a strategic decision-making workshop when I came across a quote that stopped me cold:

I've never forgotten it. And the more I've thought about it, the more I've realized most people never get to make the decision right because they never actually make the decision.

They slide into it instead.

You know the feeling. You're scrolling Netflix, looking for something the whole family can watch. Every time you land on something promising, someone vetoes it. The options keep coming. Nothing gets chosen. Eventually, everyone gives up and watches something alone.

That's a small example, but the same thing happens with careers, relationships, and goals. The sheer volume of options creates paralysis by analysis. Which looks a lot like sliding, moving toward something without ever fully committing to it.

Here's what I mean. The word decision comes from the Latin root meaning to cut off. When you make a real decision, you eliminate the alternatives. You stop keeping one foot in something else. But when you're sliding, nothing gets cut off. You're interested but not committed. And you will never find out how good something could be without going all in.

Author David Epstein, in his book Inside the Box, put it well: "Constraints can be tools for contentment." It sounds counterintuitive in a world that celebrates infinite options. But constraints force a choice. And a choice, a real one, is where progress begins.

So stop waiting for the perfect option to reveal itself. Make the decision, then pour your energy into making it right. That's where the good stuff is.

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