Succeeding at Things That Matter

Today is my 42nd birthday. I am not a birthday guy, however, the day has me contemplating my relationship with fear and success.

In my teens, I feared failure and my dad. Success meant getting the girl or winning the game.

In my twenties, I feared not finding someone. Success meant finding what I was supposed to do.

In my thirties, I feared people’s judgment of my work. Success meant a book deal and making a buck.

Now in my forties, I still care about all those things but in different and smaller ways. Currently, I fear God and losing meaningful people. Success means making an impact in things that matter.

There is this powerful quote: “Don’t fear success. Fear succeeding at something that doesn’t matter.”

I want what I do, while I am here, to matter.

One of the reasons I write the Optimistic Outlook is because I believe you matter and are worth it. The people you lead, influence, and build community with matter.

Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to share insights on your walk.