Morgan Freeman has delivered some iconic lines over the years.

In Shawshank Redemption, he said, "Hope is a dangerous thing. Hope can drive a man insane." In Bruce Almighty, playing God, he looked Jim Carrey in the eye and said, "You want to see a miracle, son? Be the miracle."

But maybe his best line came in Along Came a Spider, when he said, "You're born with a gift. If not that, then you get good at something along the way. And what you're good at, you don't take for granted. You don't betray it."

His co-star then asked, "What if you do betray your gift?"

His answer: "Then you betray yourself."

Read that again. You were either born with a gift, or you got good at something along the way. Either path counts. But if you don't use it, you're not just leaving potential on the table. You're betraying yourself. That's a different kind of weight.

When you frame it that way, it changes how you talk about your work, your calling, even a hobby you've quietly let go of. Instead of downplaying what you've developed or resisting it because it feels too big or too vulnerable to own, your job is simply to use it.

I don't know what your gifts are. But I know it's your job to figure it out, develop them, and then, most importantly, use them in the service of other people. That's where a gift becomes something bigger than yourself.

Don't betray it.

You're born with a gift. If not that, then you get good at something along the way. And what you're good at, you don't take for granted. You don't betray it.

Use Your Gifts,
John Eades
Creator, The Leadership Lens & The Optimistic Outlook

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