It’s easy to drift toward the worst-case scenario.
You could fail the test
You could lose the deal
You could get rejected
You could miss the shot
You could throw the interception
Your mind is very good at protecting you. It runs simulations of everything that could go wrong so you can avoid embarrassment, rejection, or disappointment. And if you don’t take action, you stay safe.
At least that’s what it feels like.
But the hard truth is this: not taking action is the only way to guarantee failure.
During my college golf days at the University of Maryland, I went through a stretch where my mind defaulted to the worst possible outcome before almost every shot. Instead of seeing the ball fly at the flag, I imagined it in the bunker, the water, or out of bounds. As you might expect, I wasn’t playing freely or confidently.
It was during a session with a sports psychologist that things began to shift. He said something simple that stopped me in my tracks.
“You always have the option to imagine the best-case scenario.”
I remember sitting there thinking, he’s right.
If I can so easily picture the ball in the hazard, I can just as easily picture it landing ten feet from the hole. The effort is the same, but the direction and outcome are completely different.
Most people overestimate the downside and underestimate the upside. We rehearse failure and rarely rehearse success. And then we wonder why we hesitate.
When you lean into the upside, something changes. You feel energy instead of dread. You feel anticipation instead of anxiety. You get a little more willing to take action.
You may not control the outcome. But you always control which picture you run in your mind.
So here’s the question for today: What’s one situation in front of you right now where you could intentionally ask, “What is the best-case scenario?”
Because you always have the option.
You always have the option to imagine the best-case scenario.
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Use Your Gifts,
John Eades
Creator, The Leadership Lens & The Optimistic Outlook

