Your title is temporary. Doesn't matter if it's CEO, President, Director, or anything in between. Someone else will have it eventually. You're renting it.
TIAA CEO Thasunda Brown Duckett said it better than most: "I rent my title, but I own my character." She delivered that line to a room full of Wharton MBA graduates, and it landed because it's true for all of us. The role will change. The business card will change. What you're made of doesn't.
Too many people pour their energy into protecting the title, chasing the authority, clout, and money that come with it. None of those things are bad. But they're all rented as well.
Character is the one thing you actually own. The mental and moral qualities that are distinctive to you that no one can develop for you.
And one of the simplest ways to build it is to remember five words: your word is your bond. If you do what you say you're going to do, consistently, over time, your character holds up. People trust you and will follow you. They speak well of you when you're not in the room.
Is it always easy? No. There will be moments where keeping your word costs you something. Where it would be easier to let it slide, reschedule, or quietly forget the commitment you made.
Do it anyway. Because titles come and go. Character is the only thing that stays with you through all of it.
Your title is rented. Your character is owned
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Use Your Gifts,
John Eades
Creator, The Leadership Lens & The Optimistic Outlook

